It usually involves sitting in a chair and letting your partner take over, or laying down on the bed with your partner positioned between your legs. But there are actually a ton of different positions that change the way oral sex feels for both the giver and the receiver. One thing is important about these positions, though. Ahead, Morgan-Najieb walks us through five oral sex positions that will have you and your partner feeling very satisfied. With your partner laying on their back, you can access all of their pleasure spots while also staying comfortable yourself. This position also gives you access to the clit, if your partner has a vulva, and the testicles, if your partner has a penis, which are both often-missed erogenous zones that can be teased during sex.
Intermediate Blowjob Positions
For the Fellas
The key to face-sitting is not actually sitting on his face unless you want to literally have a killer vagina. Straddle his head and give yourself a light thigh workout holding yourself a couple inches above his face while he goes down on you. He can reach up and hold onto your butt and hips, because who doesn't like grabbing a butt? Not only is this a totally hot oral position that puts you in control of the angle and pressure, it's also a good segue into the world of anilingus, if that's something you're into. Have your guy lie upside down on the couch, with his back and head on the seat and his legs draped over the back. Kneel over his face, facing the back of the couch. Then bend over and 69 away.
It's the top sexual act for successfully reaching orgasm. Having a partner's full concentration on your clitoris, vulva, and vagina allows you to lie back and enjoy the pleasure to the fullest. Even though some people are a little apprehensive about oral sex, consider being open to exploration. Getting up close and personal with your partner's taste and smell, and figuring out how they like to be touched, licked, and rubbed can be sexy.
Takeaway: Banish mediocre sex! These positions put a new spin on oral. The road to mediocre sex is paved with repetition. Unless "mediocre" is the kind of sex you want to be having, it's important to keep mixing things up, trying things out and approaching things from new angles. Why waste them on the same old, same old? If You're Giving It: This is perhaps, logistically, the best position from which to achieve the elusive deepthroat.